| Last day at Pendla |
Besides the people, there are many things I noticed here that are different than in the U.S. I was hoping to post this earlier, but obviously didn't get around to it. So why not just throw it here ha.
Gender Equality: Ah, the great debate that has the capability of separating any relationship. Ha, okay kidding. Just messing around folks, take it easy. However, South Africa does seem more behind on this then the States. This is a major issue on equality. Here there are certain sports for men and certain ones for women. So much that men don't even know how to play women sports and women don't know how to play men's. It's also hard to get them to do so (like at Pendla or elsewhere). There are more examples of this but I will leave it at that for now.
Replayed American Sports: Trying to watch American sports here is, well, impossible. If there is one thing that I like more about the States than South Africa, it's the sports. God Bless American football, baseball, basketball, and hockey. If I was lucky enough to be around a T.V. that had international sports on it was always a replay. I most likely already new the outcome because of social media and online news. I enjoyed watching rugby but it doesn't beat out American football.
Bugs: There are many bugs that are similar to America, however, they represent more of the southern areas of the States. I haven't seen too many, but there are lizards, cockroaches, mosquitoes (not many though), spiders, and the creepy crawlers.
Milk and Tea: Alright, maybe this is a normal thing back in the States too, but they love to put milk in their tea. I love it as well. Stuffs great. If this isn't a thing in the States then it's about to be.
Landscape: Obviously, the landscape is a lot different. Having the Indian Ocean on on side and mountains on the other is amazing. Minnesota's farmland and prairies is cool and all but I love the landscape here.
Tom Shoes: Huge shout out to Tom Shoes. Tom's allow you to buy one pair and donate one to a child in need. I wasn't sure if they actually followed through. They do. At the Missionvale Care Center boxes of Tom's are delivered to help the people without shoes.
Minority: Being the minority is interesting. It's hard at times, but I think it's a good thing to experience. Being white in the States is the norm, here it is not. I actually get looked at suspiciously at times and am always around more blacks then whites. (Calling them black here is normal, not racist.) Furthermore, there is still some tension or anger from Apartheid. Sometimes I will get an uncomfortable feeling because I think they are judging me because I am white. Which they might be, however it allows me to experience how they may feel in the States which is good.
Cops: Oh, the police. I know the cops can cause lots of stress and some unwanted traffic stops, however the police in the United States are way more dedicated to serving the public than they are here. Some people drive around in vehicles that are labeled "Police" but they aren't cops. Furthermore, getting pulled over here usually ends with you paying the cop off (only heard, not from personal experience).
African Time: Everything is laid back. The word "now" is not in people's vocabulary. Well, it is, however it doesn't mean the same thing. I have people who will tell me that they are coming "just now" or "now now" but will show up way later. It's definitely something you get use to, though.
Organization: Similar to African Time the organization here is not the same. Lots of things (events, classes, etc.) are kind of thrown together. For example, the weight room. There are weights laying around everywhere and nothing is put away.
Nokonwaba or as I like
to call her "Nokia"!
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Nightlife: People will go out any day of the week here. Usually one bar will be designated a night. For example, you only go to Balizza's on Thursdays. It's just a known thing.
HIV/AIDS: Even though South Africa is one of the most economically advanced countries in Africa, they still struggle with HIV/AIDS. They have the highest population of people living with HIV/AIDS.
Education System: The education system here is still in the works. It has been 20 years of democracy and there have been many changes in how education is taught and administered.
Trash: Trash is placed everywhere. People don't use garbage cans as much as the U.S. Also, trash is usually burned.
Change: Every once in awhile you will get shorted.
You are supposed to get R5.30 back but only end up getting R5.10 back. Just happens. Whether they don't have enough change in the till or what, not really sure.
The Adhan: This is the Muslims call to prayer which happens 5 times a day. I don't see it too much in Port Elizabeth, but have seen it. It's interesting to experience and get a better understanding of another religion. When at my friend Zeno's house for a braai last weekend, I heard the call throughout the neighborhood and people on the streets went into prayer.
I will be leaving South Africa tomorrow morning and with it all the friends I have made, amazing animals I have seen, the places I love, and the ocean I swam in most days. Just now, as I was writing this my buddy John and two others said their goodbyes and were driven to the airport. Sadness is creeping in, but rather than feel sad about it being over we will laugh and smile about all the amazing times we have had.
The biggest "THANK YOU" to my amazing mother and father who made this entire experience possible. It is because of you two that I get to say for the rest of my life that I once lived in South Africa and on the shores of the Indian Ocean.
Well, this is the end to my study abroad experience so I hope you all enjoyed reading my blog throughout my time here. I am happy to have kept up with it for it will be a nice thing to look back on and remember. I better go, my buddy Sam just handed me a cold brew and there are still some things left to be packed. See you and the U.S.A very soon!
| Here comes the sun! |


